TIP TO MALE & FEMALE FOR SEX

FOR THE WOMAN

There is emotional tension of leaving the parental home and moving to a completely new environment.
There is fear of pain and bleeding at the first intercourse.
There is fear of pregnancy and childbirth.
There is apprehension about her in-laws.
There are clashes between the in-laws on dowry issues, gifts, etc.
There is anxiety about poor self image due to size of breast, skin color, or physical defects.
Social attitudes precipitate inhibition.
Many people believe that sex is dirty,
That only disreputable women enjoy sex
Woman’s knowledge of sex means she is pre-experience
That it is a man’s right to enjoy sex and that the woman should submit to his demands.

FOR THE MAN

FIVE “T”S FOR A HAPPY MARRIAGE

PRELIMINARY IMPERATIVES PRIOR TO SEX

Tips to Male

Remain tension free.
Intercourse should always be done in an airy, neat, clean , fully ventilated room, free from any encroachment and disturbance.
Ensure personal hygiene. Use deodorants, sents to ward off foul smelling body odours.
Before sex , have a bath or at least, sponge your whole body, particularly your ears, nose, arms pits, inner thighs, prepuce and glans penis.
Give equal opportunity to your partner to have her own time.
Never plunge your at once into intercourse.
Persuade your partner. Appreciate and endear each and every organ of her body, even if you don’t have fancy to some of her organs.
Aggression , rough-shod treatment, demeaning, slighting or insulting will have a rebound reaction, resulting an imposed coitus.
Excite her gently, carefully , slowly , tenderly. If she resists and forbids you not to touch any one or more of her sex organs
Try to avoid sex during advance stage of pregnancy, during meanstruation or when she is having leucorrhoea.
Fondle, caress, cuddle, kiss, pamper each and every erogenous zone- but very slowly.
Give equal chance to your partner to indulge in sex act.
If you are about to reach the climax, you should let your partner know a bit earlier so that she could help you to delay orgasm , by adopting squeeze the tempo method.
After you have reached your climaxed orgasm , you should never leave her in between .

FOR WOMAN

Before you meet your husband , make sure that.
You have taken a fresh bath with some pleasing soap. Your private parts and arm-pits should not give our any foul and nauseating smell.
Your hair should be styled in a such a way which should catch our husband’s fancy. Some ladies use some fragrant hair oil and adorn their hair.
Never Burden your body with heavy clothes, Dress up in see-saw dress, where your beauty and body organs are amply exposed.
Often change the colour of your dress –sometimes black, at times red, white or pink.
Avoid using bras and underpanties. But keep in mind how your husband would like you to dress up if at all.
Exchange some notes and pay compliments for his finger and manly body
Men do not want to waste time in above said interludes, so don’t over play in eulogizing your husband who is restless to enjoy every bit of your body.
Do your utmost to build up his ego.

SEX WITHDRAWAL OR DEVIATION ?

Lack of interest in the physical form of the spouse due to impotence, frigidity, family and professional constraints and compulsions.
More interest in children, less in husband.
More care for job requirements.
Extramarital Relationships.
Disagreement with the spouse on ways, methods and techniques in the performance of sex.
Homosexuality; lesbianism, masturbation, preference for call girl and prostitute.
Taboos and inhibitions. Joint family syndrome and social outlook.
Incest, child-abuse or preference for a younger partner.
Diseases like T.B, Diabetes, HIV, STD and AIDS, Cancer.
Psychosexual problems.
Sex arousal only with a person who can measure up to the imagined figure of the spouse.
Indulgence, though frequent, in oral sex or through mechanical gadgets.
Time crunch or else lack of mutual understanding as to when sex could be possible.

What a woman wants ? complaints by woman.

Like a greedy and impatient person, why a man
makes so much haste during the intercourse ?
He leaves me half way , turns his head and goes to sleep.
He uses me like a sleeping pill.
He uses me like a pitcher to hold his semen.
Man is like a fast train and women is like a slow train. Two such trains if started together , will never reach the destination at the same time.
Why do people have sex ?
Biological instinct for survival of human race .
To satisfy the sexual desire.
For achieving parenthood.
Promotion of intimacy, love and sharing between
husband and wife.
Some women do it merely to satisfy their husband.
Some men do it for the release of tension.
Commercial sex worker (Prostitutes)do it for earning
their livelihood.