Reproductive organs female

FIRST NIGHT
PRATHAM RATRI HINDI
SUHAG RAAT GUJRATI, HINDI
MADHU RAJANI HINDI
PRASTHA KANNADA
MILAN KI RAAT HINDI
GOLDEN NIGHT ENGLISH
AADHYA RATRI MALAYALAM
VATHAL KASHMIRI
BASAR BENGALI
NISHAKHER KANNADA
SHOBHAN RATIR TELEGU
SHOBHANA KANNADA
CHOTHI RATRI ORIA
MUDHAL ERAVU TAMIL
MODALA RATRI KANNADA
MUKABALE WALI RAAT URDU
KATLA KI RAAT URDU
LAGAN NI RAAT PARSI
MADHU CHANDRA CHI RAAT MARATHI

FIRST NIGHT BLUES PSYCHOLOGICAL

  • Inadequate sexual information
  • Restrictive upbringing
  • Sex is dirty
  • Women who enjoy sex are disreputable
  • Unreasonable expectation
  • Performance anxiety
  • Guilt
  • Traumatic early sexual experience
  • Comparison with past sexual experience
  • Sexual myths
  • Fear of pain
  • Fear of failure
  • Fear of not satisfying partner
  • Impaired self image, Size of penis/breast
  • Fear of pregnancy
  • Feeling angry, bitter or resentful towards partner
  • Expectations of spontaneous erection
  • Fear of STD/HIV/AIDS
  • Stimulus
    • Masturbation
    • Voyeurism
    • Group Sex
    • Pornographic material

Knowledge of sex act by female- can create suspicion in male’s mind

ORGANIC

  • Dysfunction in the partner e.g. vaginismus
  • Psychiatric disorder
  • Tight foreskin
  • Tear of  frenulum / small  blood vessels
  • Tough hymen
  • Health problems

MISCELLANEOUS

  • Random failure
  • Too tired
  • Sexually not attracted, Bad breathe, clothes, nails.
  • Poor communication
  • Restricted Foreplay
  • Sex positions
  • Tricks-to prolong sex act
  • Stranger many  meet for first time after marriage
  • Unsuitable environment
    • Too cold
    • Too hot
    • No privacy

CONSEQUENCES

  • They may avoid sexual activity
  • They may continue to have only foreplay.
  • They may have good relationship in other aspects of life
  • Some may suffer from anxiety / depression.
  • Impotency
  • Infertility
  • They may make allegations at each other leading to marital conflicts, separation or divorce.