| FIRST NIGHT | |
|---|---|
| PRATHAM RATRI | HINDI |
| SUHAG RAAT | GUJRATI, HINDI |
| MADHU RAJANI | HINDI |
| PRASTHA | KANNADA |
| MILAN KI RAAT | HINDI |
| GOLDEN NIGHT | ENGLISH |
| AADHYA RATRI | MALAYALAM |
| VATHAL | KASHMIRI |
| BASAR | BENGALI |
| NISHAKHER | KANNADA |
| SHOBHAN RATIR | TELEGU |
| SHOBHANA | KANNADA |
| CHOTHI RATRI | ORIA |
| MUDHAL ERAVU | TAMIL |
| MODALA RATRI | KANNADA |
| MUKABALE WALI RAAT | URDU |
| KATLA KI RAAT | URDU |
| LAGAN NI RAAT | PARSI |
| MADHU CHANDRA CHI RAAT | MARATHI |
FIRST NIGHT BLUES PSYCHOLOGICAL
- Inadequate sexual information
- Restrictive upbringing
- Sex is dirty
- Women who enjoy sex are disreputable
- Unreasonable expectation
- Performance anxiety
- Guilt
- Traumatic early sexual experience
- Comparison with past sexual experience
- Sexual myths
- Fear of pain
- Fear of failure
- Fear of not satisfying partner
- Impaired self image, Size of penis/breast
- Fear of pregnancy
- Feeling angry, bitter or resentful towards partner
- Expectations of spontaneous erection
- Fear of STD/HIV/AIDS
- Stimulus
- Masturbation
- Voyeurism
- Group Sex
- Pornographic material
Knowledge of sex act by female- can create suspicion in male’s mind
ORGANIC
- Dysfunction in the partner e.g. vaginismus
- Psychiatric disorder
- Tight foreskin
- Tear of frenulum / small blood vessels
- Tough hymen
- Health problems
MISCELLANEOUS
- Random failure
- Too tired
- Sexually not attracted, Bad breathe, clothes, nails.
- Poor communication
- Restricted Foreplay
- Sex positions
- Tricks-to prolong sex act
- Stranger many meet for first time after marriage
- Unsuitable environment
- Too cold
- Too hot
- No privacy
CONSEQUENCES
- They may avoid sexual activity
- They may continue to have only foreplay.
- They may have good relationship in other aspects of life
- Some may suffer from anxiety / depression.
- Impotency
- Infertility
- They may make allegations at each other leading to marital conflicts, separation or divorce.